Maybe you caught yourself in a situation like this:
You, a girl, and a guy.
You
2 are friends. Then, more than that. But you don't consider yourselves
as a couple 'cause apparently you 2 don't date, and no one really confess to the other person.
Though obviously, you 2 are more than friends.
He thought of confessing, but changed his mind. You too, think 'bout confessing but you have no idea what he's thinking.And the most importantly, why and what changed his mind?
What do you do? Leave it, and move on? It depends.
Nah, just kidding.
But then, when the 2 of you are no longer seeing each other as often as before, say, due to different study places or working places, if you're one of them, will you choose to confess?
If you confess, and the other one tell you that he/she likes you too, will you be " in a relationship " ? Knowing that you won't be able to see each other for a long time?
Can you handle it?
What if he meets another girl? What if YOU meet another guy?
Will your heart still be there for him/her?
If both of you chose not to say anything, but still you're so close to each other, I say, maybe being a family will be a better choice.
Yes, family. A type of relationship which is higher than friends but not a couple.
Sometimes, couples who break up consider themselves as a family IF and only if they broke up in peace, without any arguments.
Maybe you don't have to go through the pain. Being in love but when it ends, it hurts you very much.
Maybe you choose to skip the stage of being together and straight away be a family, knowing that he/she will be there for you when you need him/her.
This kind of relationship is kinda special. When a person who does not related to you at all, becomes a part of your family.
Maybe that's why people love to put "in a complicated relationship" in fb. Haha. They ain't sure whether their friendship is just a friendship, or more than that. So, yeah..
It's just my opinion. The decision is always yours to make. =)
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