That day out of sudden I received her call and was like, whoa! All the way from where you're calling from just to seek for my opinion? Seems that I'm one of your most important friends eh? =P
Sometimes when I'm given the options, the person who gave me the choices just can't respect my decision, must say something like, " Why you don't want to choose this lea? That's better ma. " or " Are you sure or not? Don't regret wor. I still think you choose that one better la. "
Then what for you gave me the right to choose!!!!!
Grrr. Seriously hate it.
Sometimes when I'm given the options, the person who gave me the choices just can't respect my decision, must say something like, " Why you don't want to choose this lea? That's better ma. " or " Are you sure or not? Don't regret wor. I still think you choose that one better la. "
Then what for you gave me the right to choose!!!!!
Grrr. Seriously hate it.
Back to my point.
There's a friend of mine, couldn't choose whether to stay at where she is now, or to transfer out to the place which she just got accepted in. In this case, I'm talking 'bout college.
The moment she told me, I said easy la, you split yourself into 2 then no problem already. xD
I asked her to make a table 'bout the advantages of the 2 colleges, which she already did.
I asked her to make a table 'bout the advantages of the 2 colleges, which she already did.
The one that she's in now has 8 advantages whereas the new place holds only 2 advantages.
But most importantly, she prefers the courses which the new place offered her.
Easy. Simply because she loves the subjects.
The interest is there.
The reason why she can't make a decision is because the course that she's studying right now provides a better future with a bigger career opportunity compared to the course in the new place.
I also asked her whether or not she'll regret the choice that she makes in the end. If you think you'll regret, don't go for it. You've to analyze and predict the future 1st.
In the end, the decision that she made is the one that I already bet that she'll choose.
So, follow your heart. It's easier said than done but you just have to. Even when it has the least advantages, as long as your heart belongs there, advantages don't matter anymore.
See? I just can relate anything to something 'bout love. AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!
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