Expectations and Judgements

Everytime we know somebody new, we tend to see what is from the outside, or his/her FB status, FB photos, whatever that are posted online.

Then we judge, then we expect he/she is this/that kind of people.

It wasn't until you get to really know this person only you know the true him/her.

In fact, I think, I'll never get to 100% know a person. No matter how a person shows you himself/herself, they will somehow retain that little part of themselves, with themselves.

Like what happened in the movie, Mr and Mrs Smith. You are a secret agent being hired to kill your husband who is also a secret agent, who also happens to be hired to murder you.

HA. HA. SUPER FUN.

Or like any big criminal news where the spouse had no idea that her husband for 10 years is actually an international wanted crime.



People will change. You know him when he's nice and all. When a person is forced to make a decision, he/she will change. To protect themselves, to protect others.

You think marrying a rich guy guarantees your whole life, that you won't need to argue over money and stuff like that? What if he goes bankrupt one day?

Rich or not, it's a matter of having the ambition to make things better or not. Many people succeed by persistent and not giving up easily.

Others? The dream of marrying a rich guy to secure your future crushes when the guy loses everything in a day and refuses to work. The story continues as you and I know how it will continue.


We tend to forgive others easily when we realise we will make the same mistakes. If I'm firm that I won't do this and that, when I find out that others make the mistake that I will not do, I'll be angry at them for making the mistakes. But how can I when all of us ain't perfect?



We expect what we think of people, we judge people through what we think.


Maybe we should just behave neutrally and stop thinking of how to define people into the categories of good or bad.


No idea why I have so many theories lately, especially when I'm in Hatyai now. I mean, I shouldn't think too much until my brain bursts.


Dear God, You know that there are times when I just don't feel patient and humble and gentle. Those days in my life, the fruit of Your Spirit seems in short supply. Please enable me to love others today.

Put on tender mercies, kindness, humility, meekness, long suffering; bearing with one another. Colossians 3:12-17