LDR

Long-distant relationship.


During the last YA, Juliana (aka SEGi Idol 2015 champion) realised that I'm going to graduate soon, so she was like, graduating from diploma ke? I said no, it's degree. Then she asked, how bout Husky Gorgor? Got 2 more years lor. Then I told her, you'll see him more than I see him.

Hahaha.

Sad, but true.

As the thesis deadline is getting nearer, I begin to think more of what will happen when I go to SG to work. IF, someone wants to employ me la.

Will we still chat the way we chat like now? Even now, both of us are busy with our own things. When we are done, we just want to sleep. Because it's such a tiring day for both of us, for him especially. And we just don't want to pressure each other to continue chatting because we know that both of us just want to rest. Sometimes just a bit of words can make someone annoy easily.

I guess it's normal to have a bit fear. That communication will soon be lesser. That feelings.. might fade away bit by bit. Especially when the relationship is not yet stable.

This is why we need trust. And we need faith on each other. To maintain the love that we have between us despite our distance. We need to be committed in keeping the connection between each other. Skype everyday? Don't miss a day. Good morning and good night texts? Don't forget to do it. You'll have no choice but to miss your partner through a phone. If distance is a problem to couples, then those who see each other everyday will not break up right? But still, they did.

This article appears in FB and I guess it's kinda true though. Click here to read it.

Anyway, this has been circulated in FB lately. 12 countries in 3 years. WOW.

How lovely. How much trust and faith to love each other with all the time differences.

If after all these challenges, and when they finally able to see each other everyday but yet they cannot survive, then I'll be really speechless.
 

Through patience one a ruler can be persuaded and a gentle tongue can break a bone. - Proverbs 25:15 -