Long Distance Relationship

Such a challenging relationship.


Seeing couples showing PDA, makes me wonder, will they lose their love when they are apart?

Apart not just a few miles away, but a thousand miles, maybe even half a world away.

Some people cannot take it, thus the break ups.

Just like the one couple that I'm very fond of, they started almost the time when me and Husky started too, so I somehow feel close to them in someways. Also their relationship is very challenging due to parents' objections.

I feel so upset when I heard about their breakup, thinking that no, it's not distance that breaks them, but because fear conquers love, that she doesn't have the courage enough to hold on with him. Distance is just an excuse for the break up.

Sometimes I see the guy posting pictures with girls, it's always either his sister or his friends, and I can't help but to whisper, please don't find other girls until she comes back, please wait at least until June when she comes back, please find ways to reconcile with her. And also at the same time hoping that she doesn't find "someone better" in the place she is right now, just give him a chance, please let love conquer fear instead.

Perhaps the timing is not right yet, perhaps they don't have fate with each other. Whatever the reason is, if a relationship ends not because they don't love each other anymore, but is because of other reasons like parents' objections, financial issues, 'wrong timing', I feel very wasted, that a true love is gone.

And also my Nek is having LDR, listening to what she says, like it would be great to see him every now and then, how wonderful it is if he's there with her, and things like that. Sometimes it makes me think hard, will I be able to survive if I'm the one having LDR.

Because I'm quite an extreme person. I can be as clingy as you want me to be, I also can be as independent as I want myself to be.

They say LDR is the test of a relationship's strength. If it's strong enough, it will end well. Subsequently, it will break when it fails.

Every moment should be special not only to those who are having LDR, but also to those who see each other everyday. :)