Stuck with You

I remember attending Melanie and Pr Daryl's wedding, and Pr Eric said something about his wife was very annoyed with his things putting all over the places because he simply puts them, and that those things don't have legs and won't walk to the place where they belong.

And then she said, but no matter what, we are stuck together okay.

I don't know how many people will be able to say these words, even sometimes I also have doubt with myself whether I can really stick with Husky, especially when some of his bad habits surface which I cannot tahan one.

It might sound pathetic to some, that we don't allow ourselves to have a choice to leave when we cannot tahan our partners, because we are stuck with each other. But if leaving is a backup plan, then how many partners we need to have, in order to be with each other for the rest of our lives? We will keep leaving, and start a new relationship with someone new, and when we cannot tahan, we leave again.


During the Sunday sermon just last week, Pr Eric mentioned that married couples (and even unmarried ones) are like two papers gluing to each other. When conflicts happen, the papers cannot be torn apart just because they have different opinions. No matter what couples must go through together every conflict and arguments and misunderstandings and miscommunication, but yet remain gluing to each other.

The easy part is always to remain silent and part their own ways, that way at least it's peaceful. But no, conflicts won't be resolved and there will always be a thorn in their hearts.


Husky and I are a lot different when it comes to opinions. Me being the emotional one, him being the rational one. I call him cold blooded sometimes, because when my emotion is like super excited or super down, he will be very steady.

For example, when I'm super excited, his response will be of a dead person's heartbeat rate. One straight line. SUPER COLD BLOODED. -.- But when I'm super down, he will comfort me by saying things of different perspective, and at the end he will say aiya, nothing one la. Of course to me it's not nothing one, but when I took a step back and see the bigger picture, it's actually really nothing one. Just that on the spot of course I was being very emotional la.

Over the time I guess we do learn a lot by conveying our thinking clearly to each other, even though sometimes we do feel like being quiet is the best option. But by that means we give up on communicating with each other and it's absolutely not the right way to strengthen our relationship.



Good or bad, we are stuck together, okay?