20s

Read something in FB today.

“ 20多岁，男人通常还处于起步阶段，是一生中的最低点；而此时，女人却处于一生中最好的时候 。一个人，若甘心把最好的时间，给了最差的你 。为什么不知道珍惜？” ---- 马丁

It meant that in the early 20s, to guys, they are currently in the I-still-don't-have-anything status. They are either still studying, or they just started their career and are on their way to build it.

At the same time, to girls, this is the peak of their life journey because they have youth, they have beauty, they are young, basically this is the best time of their lives before they start their own family.

If a girl of 20s is willing to be together with a 20s guy who have nothing yet, it means that she really loves him and is willing to sacrifice her youth and time for him, to build their own future.

Sad to say, not many guys understand this theory. And when their gfs left them for older guys, they thought that they were dumped because they have no money. Yes, older guys have more money (in general la), but at the same time they have more experience which builds their understanding in taking care of their gfs' emotional needs.

They know how to handle their mood swings, they know how to comfort them, they know the importance of maintaining their relationships.

Probably because when the older guys were in their 20s, they disappointed their first few ex-partners. That's why through experiences, they learn and grow to be wiser. And they give their best to the one who appear in their lives on time. When they are mature enough.

But it all depends. Not all young guys are childish and not older guys are mature.

If they know what is appreciation, they will know. If they don't know, you give them how many chances how many years also they won't know. #justsaying


Let us draw near to God with the full assurance that faith brings. - Hebrews 10:22 -